{"id":1422,"date":"2020-04-16T22:26:34","date_gmt":"2020-04-16T22:26:34","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/bay-pah.com\/?p=1422"},"modified":"2020-04-16T22:26:35","modified_gmt":"2020-04-16T22:26:35","slug":"interview-with-alpha-pup-kai","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/bay-pah.com\/index.php\/2020\/04\/16\/interview-with-alpha-pup-kai\/","title":{"rendered":"Interview with Alpha Pup Kai"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"768\" height=\"1024\" src=\"https:\/\/bay-pah.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/photo_2020-04-16_14-58-36-768x1024.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-1424\" srcset=\"https:\/\/bay-pah.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/photo_2020-04-16_14-58-36-768x1024.jpg 768w, https:\/\/bay-pah.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/photo_2020-04-16_14-58-36-225x300.jpg 225w, https:\/\/bay-pah.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/photo_2020-04-16_14-58-36.jpg 960w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 768px) 100vw, 768px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n<p><br \/><br \/><!--StartFragment--><\/p>\n\n\n<p>Kai joins us from FRES-PAH in the California Central Valley aka San Joaquin Valley.   He can be found on Facebook at   <a href=\"https:\/\/www.Facebook.com\/davidlicalsi\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\" aria-label=\"https:\/\/www.Facebook.com\/davidlicalsi (opens in a new tab)\">https:\/\/www.Facebook.com\/davidlicalsi<\/a>  or on  Snapchat: dlicalsi0216<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><b>Welcome\u00a0Kai!\u00a0\u00a0Could\u00a0you\u00a0please\u00a0introduce\u00a0yourself?<\/b><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I&#8217;m Alpha Kai, David LiCalsi, from Fresno Ca. My Fiance and Beta pup is Dustin AKA Pup Hero. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I tend to be aggressive or authoritative in nature tis why I work at the corporate level in the food industry. Have to get results somewhere. <br>\nUsed to work for my counties coroners office as a transporter and evidence collector. <br>\nWas in the US Army twice. Recent position was Human Intelligence Collector aka Interrogator or interrogations<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>How did you become involved in human puppy play?<\/strong><br><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I randomly joined tiktock when I was sleeping in the opposite room of my ex husband. We had started divorce proceedings and I was sleeping in an armchair drunk every night. I had no happiness. Joined TT and saw pups on videos. Thought as I was drunk &#8220;That could be me!!&#8221; Woke up the next day and realized sober I still wanted to do it  it now helps me with my depression, bipolar, PTSD, and anxiety. I proudly wear my hood driving and in public. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Do you consider yourself to be a pup, a handler, both, or something else?<\/strong><br><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>An Alpha Pup. But I have Handler qualities I am looking into<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>What are the top things you enjoy about human puppy play?<\/strong><br><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Friends and community support <br>\nFreedom from my mental issues. <br>\nLove and compassion for those the same as I am. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Are you a member of a pack?<\/strong><br><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>No pack. Never have been. Never found a reason to. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>What do you like best about your pack?<\/strong><br><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>N\/A<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Has your involvement in human puppy play impacted other aspects of your life?<\/strong><br><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I am able to go to work on a shitty day and think &#8220;it&#8217;s almost over and I can get into pup headspace and not have to deal with adulting<br><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I spend so much of my free time educating myself about all aspects of BDSM even if I am particularly uninterested in the kink\/fetish myself. This is due to the need to know more. My mind is hungry for knowledge. I will never stop learning.<br><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>You see a squirrel; what do you do?<\/strong><br><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Chase that mother fucker. Watch me.<br><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Do you have any advice for new or curious pups and handlers?<\/strong><br><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Do you have any advice for new or curious pups and handlers?<br>\nRead books out there. They help you TRULY understand pup play. <br>\nFind pups near you and meet and greet with them. <br>\nSocials. Go to them. You can hide behind your hood. I HATE meeting people but if I have my hood and I dont have to take it off, well then, they cant see nothing but a pup. <br>\nI works. Promise you this!!<br>\nAnd when you&#8217;re comfortable with them surprise them and take your hood off. It makes it that much more special to see the human under the pup space!!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><br><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>What is your favorite color?<\/strong><br><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>100000000000% only TEAL<br><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p> <strong>Thank you Kai!<\/strong>\u00a0You were the first to reach out to me to tell your story! You have truly stepped up in the FRES-PAH Community!  You are in need of belly rubs next time we hold a meet! =D<\/p>\n\n\n<p><!--EndFragment--><br>\n<br>\n<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Kai joins us from FRES-PAH in the California Central Valley aka San Joaquin Valley. 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